It started with a conversation with my friends. someone we love dearly was struggling they felt like they were being left behind that everyone was achieving apart from them,they came to this conclusion not by conversations but by social media.
Social media is a snap shot a moment in time that for a brief moment people will celebrate you ,will believe you have it all together and not only are you existing but you are thriving. Do not be fooled .What matters most is that you know there are moments that I can’t share or wont share. Would the post about the daily struggle to get out of bed be received the same way ? or how I fear I will never be enough ?
I post my successes on social media because they are few and far between and in reality the grind of daily life can sometimes be unbearable. I share the good because sometimes there is so many mundane moments that sharing the brief snap shot in time is a marker a reminder that there is good moments and to celebrate in achievements. I share these moments because I can’t believe there mine . I have had a few messages on Facebook of late after i posted to Facebook about how amazing life seems at the moment and isn’t this your year this year , and as lovely as they are i wanted these people to know ive been where you are and no doubt will return there again . Life is a rollercoaster of ups and downs and all that really counts is how you behave on your ups how you prepare for your downs and remember that one day the ride stops , so enjoy it live in your moment , follow your timeline because it doesn’t matter how old you are when you achieve something it’s still beautiful ,still special and most of all its still yours .